Sarah M.
Marketing Executive
“After one session, I felt more honest about the anger I'd been carrying for years. I left with more room to breathe and a clearer sense of what was underneath it.”
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Bring the problem that will not move. We work with the feeling underneath it, so it stops running the pattern altogether.
A feeling management system that puts you in control.
It is a series of tools that allow you to interact with your mind and completely change your negative feelings and perceptions.
Specific verbal phrases will trigger a subconscious meditation in the user.
That meditation will clear the emotional charge and give the user access to insight and information that was buried underneath the negative feelings.

Bring one real thing and see what changes when the feeling underneath it is met directly.
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A steady weekly room for learning the process, practicing the tools, and staying close to the work.
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A live introduction to how the method works with emotional charge, insight, and change.
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A deeper container for the patterns that need more time, attention, and space to move.
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Co-Founder & Executive Director
“We've created something that changes your feelings and emotions in the moment and gives you insight and information as it does.”
Thomas M. Jones is a psychotherapist, author, musician, and co-founder of The Paradox Process. For more than 40 years, he has worked with people who want more than explanation alone. They want something to actually change.
His style is direct, funny, and alive in the room. He continues to lead classes, retreats, training, and private sessions in New York City.

Andrea Roberts
Senior Facilitator

Ashlee Fife
Senior Facilitator

Casey Gensler
Senior Facilitator
Sarah M.
Marketing Executive
“After one session, I felt more honest about the anger I'd been carrying for years. I left with more room to breathe and a clearer sense of what was underneath it.”
Michael R.
Software Engineer
“The Paradox Process changed my relationship with anxiety. What used to run the whole show now feels easier to recognize and work with.”
Jennifer L.
Teacher
“I'd tried a lot of things before this. What felt different here was how directly we worked with the feeling itself instead of circling it for weeks.”


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